Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Quick January Update -- In pictures!

Jaxen sleeping in his big boy bed for the 1st time!

Cats enjoying {hehe} the beautiful weather!

Jacob & Jaxen playing outside in January!!

Jaxen, Jacob & Chloe - playing together!

I love moments like this!!  ♥ my babies!

Beautiful House Warming Gift from Joanna & Caleb.

To those who missed the family dinner I held - this is what you missed!!  It was delicious!

Jacob enjoying the family over

Jaxen was starving.

My dinner guests!!  My sisters - Amanda & Joanna with there other halves.

My nephew, Carter with Jacob

Jerry cuddling with a sick little boy.

Mr. Sickie

What am I doing wrong?!

Let me start off by saying that I KNOW that there are a lot of missing pieces in this blog!  I'm not sure if there is enough time in the day for me to fill you in on everything that has gone on in the past couple of months.  I can tell you that thing have been insane!  I hope things things are finally settling down for us and I believe we have made all the right decisions for our family.  Only time will tell and with time all will be revealed on here!   :-)

With everything going on, I really think it was/is too much for Jacob.  He's is absolutely driving me crazy because he has had a GIANT set back in using the bathroom.  My once 100% potty trained 4-year old is back to not going in the potty - AT ALL!  By 9am this morning, Jacob had already peed and pooped in his underwear.  He will sit in it and he will wear it all day long.  He will go get on the potty if I ask him to, but he will not go on his own.

I have tried EVERYTHING!  I'm almost to my breaking point.  I've punished/spanked, awarded good behavior, taken toys/monkey away, made him stand in the corner,bribed, sent him to bed early, praised, given him more one-on-one time and looked the other way.  I just don't know what else to do.  Does anyone have any suggestions?

Jacob says that he doesn't know when he has to go. . . which I find hard to believe because he's been potty trained once.  I also find it hard to believe because he sits in it until I find it. . . it doesn't phase him to have dirty underwear.  I'm sure it's all the changes that have taken place in the last month - new house, him and Jaxen have to share a room now, etc. 

Jerry and I are literally clueless.  Any suggestion would be appreciated!!  Any other parents gone through this?!

Monday, January 16, 2012

MLK Day.

Monday's are normally horrible around here.  After all, who really likes Monday unless it's a holiday weekend?  However, working in retail, I do not get a holiday weekend.  And since Monday's are really my Friday at work. . . they seem to drag on even longer!!  Especially, when they stop everything at work to have a 40-minute meeting!  Which makes going home 40-minutes later because we still have to finish our jobs. 
So you can tell what my attitude was going into this meeting.  {Blah!}  And you can always tell when the meetings are going to be long because they put out the chairs! 

But yesterday's meeting was just what I needed after the crazy week I've had.  {Stress was just building - Jaxen to the ER a week ago, Still haven't found my energy to move our stuff in the house, Laundry is piling up because every time I do a load of Laundry the toilet downstairs backs up, Jaxen's got to be getting teeth because he's cranky and attached to me 24/7 helping me get nothing done, plus my first 3-day work week since before Christmas - I was hurting come Monday!}  My name was drawn in the safety pot - so I got to play Walmart "Plinko" and I won a free meal for my entire area!  {Now everyone love me!}  And they announced our cost of living raise. . . which you don't get in a store {and if you do, it's only a few pennies at most!} and the DC didn't get one last year.  So it's wonderful that across the board - no matter what your "pay scale" or if you are maxed out - everyone in the DC gets a $0.40 raise.  So that's a collective $0.80 more for Jerry and I.  Which is amazing!  I am also scheduled my 6-month $0.50 raise next month - so in just 6-months at the DC I have gotten a $1.40 in raises and started out making $6.00 more an hour at the DC than the store.  I can't believe the difference it's making.  If I ever doubted my transfer, I certainly don't now.  I definitely did what was right for my family!!

Well I think I finally lost the boys to their bedroom. . . I'm going to see if I can sneak downstairs and get some laundry sorted.  If anyone is still paying attention to this blog - I have updated the Picasa web album. . . I got the November/December 2011 & January 2012 albums uploaded.  I didn't realize I was so behind!

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

A night in the E.R.

And the award of the first kid to make mom sit in the E.R. goes to -------------- Jaxen!
Oh what a night it was.  Sunday morning, I dropped Jaxen off at the baby sitter's house.  I noticed he was coughing but then again so were the other two.  When I got home, Jaxen was still napping.  Jerry said he was cranky so I let him sleep longer than normal after Jerry went to work.  It was about 6pm when I woke him up for dinner.  His cough was horrible!  It was now high pitched and sharp . . . barking like a seal.  Which is never a good sign.

Being a Sunday night, our pediatrician's office was closed so I called the Ask Mayo Clinic which is provided free of charge with our insurance.  I've called them before and they are pleasant to talk to.  Very helpful and reassuring.  Sometimes, Mom's just need to know that they are doing the right thing and that a doctor's visit isn't always necessary.  If anything, the Nurse Line saves me in doctor's bills.  Just by giving me another option to fight a stubborn cold.  Jaxen's only 12 months old and I can't give him anything over-the-counter without calling the doctor and getting a dosage.  Most medicine packages say "Under 4 years, Ask your Doctor".  The other two are on Musinex 24/7 because of their own coughs and it's working.  I was curious if I could give Jaxen some Musinex.  However, this time it wasn't reassurance or a dosage that I got.  :-(

After taking all Jaxen's information and hearing him coughing and trying to breathe through the phone she recommended that I get a hold of the pediatrician and if I could then an ER visit was necessary.  Of course, the pediatrician wasn't there and the answer machine says to go to Children's Mercy.  Now, no offense to other parents but Children's Mercy is in North Kansas City and would take us an hour longer to get there and would probably cost me 10 times more than our local hospital just because it's a "Children's Hospital". 

I called Jerry and let him know what was going on.  He was going to see about getting off to come with us - to watch the other 2 for me.  I got the other 2 ready while waiting for Jerry to call me back.  Which didn't take too long. . . he was on his way.  And by the time that I got all three ready and a backpack packed for a lengthy wait, Jerry was here and off we went.

I felt really stupid because the cold air opened Jaxen's airways and by the time we arrived at the Emergency Room, he was breathing okay and the coughing had stopped.  But thankfully, the ER staff took everything serious and told me cold air opens the lungs and that his symptoms would come back in a few minutes.  And sure enough, by the time I got the paperwork filled out, Jaxen was struggling to breathe.  The respiratory specialist was called down before the doctor saw Jaxen and gave him a breathing treatment within minutes of arriving in the ER - which helped a lot!  The only thing Jax didn't like about the breathing treatment was the clip on his toe that was monitoring his heart rate, while he got the medicine.  The respiratory specialist verified that he definitely sound croupy and that it was the beginning stages of croup.

After the breathing treatment, we waited a long time!  The ER received 3 cardiac patients who took priority over Jaxen - which is understandable.  And the nurses kept coming in a playing with Jaxen, keeping him happy.  I finally got Jaxen to fall asleep about 11:15pm.  And sure enough it was about 11:40pm when the doctor showed up to check Jaxen {we checked in at 8!}.  He ordered a blood test, a flu test, and a chest x-ray to make sure that there wasn't anything extra going on.

I held Jaxen down while they drew blood and swabbed his nose.  Jerry got to go with him for the x-ray, while I went to the bathroom and visited with the other 2 in the waiting room.  After the x-ray, Jaxen and I were back in the hospital room. . . waiting for the test results.  It wasn't too much longer when the doctor came in and let me know that Jaxen has Bronchiolitis {which is a baby's version of Bronchitis}.  Jaxen's white blood cells were great, he tested negative to the flu and RSV, and there's no pneumonia in his lungs.   Jaxen got a dosage of steroids before we left and a prescription for another weeks worth.  And we had orders to see the pediatrician in 2-3 days for a follow-up appointment. 

We were discharged and back home about 1am.  Once we got the kids in bed, Jerry went back to work.  I called into work, called off the babysitter and went to bed myself.

Jaxen woke up the next morning acting more like his normal self.  Still a little raspy but not struggling to breathe.  I filled his prescription and got more Musinex for the big kids. . . trying really hard not to spread this one around!!  I don't need another ER visit anytime soon!!

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

January 2012 Calendar

Sunday, January 1st - Happy New Year!!  2012Monday, January 2nd -
Tuesday, January 3rd - Chloe goes back to school!
Wednesday, January 4th - Girl Scouts 3p-5p
Thursday, January 5th - Oil Change @ 930am
Friday, January 6th - "Dodds" Family Dinner
Saturday, January 7th - Girl Scout Cookie Booth 9a-4p

Sunday, January 8th - Jaxen's Emergency Room Visit 8p-12a
Monday, January 9th -
Tuesday, January 10th - Wic Appointment @ 1pm {Both Boys}
Wednesday, January 11th - Jaxen Follow-up Appt @ 10am // Service Unit Mtg 7pm
Thursday, January 12th -
Friday, January 13th -
Saturday, January 14th -

Sunday, January 15th -
Monday, January 16th - No School - Martin Luther King, Jr. Day
Tuesday, January 17th -
Wednesday, January 18th - Girl Scouts 3p-5p
Thursday, January 19th - Heidi Dr. Appt @ 11am
Friday, January 20th - Jaxen Dr. Appt @ 1pm for 2nd Flu Shot
Saturday, January 21st -

Sunday, January 22nd -
Monday, January 23rd -
Tuesday, January 24th - Jerry's Dentist Appt 830am // Alex's 7th Birthday Party @ 6pm {Cake @ Susan's then Bowling Alley}
Wednesday, January 25th - Jaxen's Dr. Appt @ 830am for 2nd Flu Shot
Thursday, January 26th -
Friday, January 27th - Mom's & Muffins with Jacob @ 8am
Saturday, January 28th -

Sunday, January 29th -
Monday, January 30th -
Tuesday, January 31st -

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Doctor's Appointment #2 - 14w4d

Just a routine appointment.  Nothing major to report. 

All blood work and tests from the last appointment came back normal.  Jerry and I got to hear the baby's heart beat for the first time. . . Gratefully, the doctor found it fairly easily.  The heart rate was a nice and strong 150+ bpm.

Unfortunately, I have lost 3 pounds from the last appointment. . . now weighing 125 pounds.  So I have a total weight gain of -3 pounds.  Doctor is not concerned about the lost of weight because it's still early, I have plenty of time to gain the weight.  She just doesn't want to see it go backwards anymore or too much farther.  Must start gaining weight.

I was also able to discuss my horrible headaches with her.  They can appear out of anywhere and last forever.  They are so random. . . sometimes I even wake up with them.  Of course, they are on set because of the hormones going crazy inside me.  She prescribed me Tylenol #3 with Codeine and said that if that doesn't work I will have to see a neurologist to get my hormones balanced correctly.  Hopefully, the Tylenol #3 will do the trick.

Monday, December 5, 2011

December Calendar

Thursday, December 1st - Dinner with Joylynn @ 6pm
Friday, December 2nd -
Saturday, December 3rd -

Sunday, December 4th -
Monday,  December 5th -
Tuesday, December 6th -
Wednesday,  December 7th - Girl Scouts 3pm-5pm
Thursday, December  8th - Payday / Cats to the Vet
Friday, December 9th -
Saturday, December 10th - Amanda's Graduation

Sunday, December 11th -   
Monday, December 12th -  
Tuesday, December  13th -  
Wednesday, December 14th - Service Unit Meeting 7pm / Closing Date for House!
Thursday, December 15th -
Friday, December 16th - Jacob's Christmas Party / Heidi's Dentist Appointment
Saturday, December 17th - Jaxen's 1st Birthday!!

Sunday, December 18th -
Monday, December 19th -
Tuesday, December 20th - Jaxen Doctor's Appointment 9am
Wednesday, December 21st - Girl Scouts 3pm-5pm
Thursday, December 22nd - Payday / No School for Chloe and Jacob until January / Cousin Cookie Party @ Susan's
Friday, December 23rd - Christmas @ Joylynn's @ 6pm
Saturday, December 24th - Christmas Eve

Sunday, December 25th - Christmas
Monday, December 26th -
Tuesday, December 27th -
Wednesday, December 28th -
Thursday, December 29th - Heidi's Doctor's Appointment
Friday, December 30th -
Saturday, December 31st - New Year's Eve